Have you ever been made to feel less than just because you're single? Maybe you're tired of shrinking yourself and your needs? Or just sick of the low-effort, bar-on-the-floor dating culture?
Dee Salmin is . . . and after years of talking to people about their love lives on triple j's award-winning podcast The Hook Up, she's ready to share everything she's learned in this part-memoir, part-manifesto on dating, sex and love.
From being single and thriving, to dating with boundaries, to finding love that's actually worth your energy, Dee blends research, expert insight and unapologetic truth-telling in this funny, furious and totally unfiltered guide.
In a world that keeps telling women to settle, It's Not Love, Actually will empower you to raise your standards to find the happy, hot and healthy relationship you deserve.
'It's Not Love, Actually belongs in the hands of anyone who wants love that is truly respectful, healthy, and happy - which is all of us.' - Chanel Contos, activist and bestselling author